blame it on the rain...

why do people blame others even if it's not their intention to do something wrong? i am also a victim... i am likewise guilty of blaming others. i guess it is human nature to blame others... or put the blame on others.. it is hard to accept our mistakes and shortcomings, but i know it is harder for the one being blamed. i do feel sorry whenever i blame others, and i do pity myself when i am in their shoes. its like you are being punished. you feel guilty and in turn you put yourself down. it is mental torture... i hope people would realize that... and i hope i am one of those people who would realize and not do it again, as much as possible.. i am sorry for all those people i have blamed... oh well... why make other people's lives miserable? why not blame yourself? why not blame inanimate objects? why not stop blaming others and yourself? why not turn it into a positive thing? cant help it?? why not just blame it on the rain?